moving on?

Category: Singles Spit Swap

Post 1 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Saturday, 04-Feb-2006 22:59:22

i have been dating someone for 2 years. now we have been apart for about 6 months and it is getting hard being friends. the sex is good and we have tryed to be friends with benefits but that didn't work either because when we would leave each other we would be sad and would wonder who the other was talking to and so on. I am not ready for another relationship right now. They want it to work and so do i but i want to get some things in my life together first. should i make them wait for me. I don't want them to lose feelings but don't know what to do.

Post 2 by dissonance (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Sunday, 05-Feb-2006 0:48:51

I would say that you should tell them how you feel, and if they want to wait for you and feel that comfortable and devoted then you know that it will work out. If that person wants it to work out, then she will wait.